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Tuesday, December 8, 2009

So.... Cheating isnt Cheating Unless You're Married?


Damn, and all this time I thought that what I was doing was wrong. Go figure.


I've heard people say the above statement before and, apparently, there are quite a few people that actually believe in it. I don't.


I have cheated and I have been cheated on and in both cases the person that cheated was wrong even though there was no marriage license involved.


When a couple sits down and decides to maintain a monogamous relationship, it is not fair for one of them to not keep up with the end of the agreement. Most relationships are made with the expectation that neither party will go outside of the relationship for mental, sexual, physical or emotional stimulation. A relationship should be built on trust, loyalty and communication. If someone feels that they have to go to an outside source because there is something in the relationship that is lacking, then that person should end the relationship. Staying in a relationship with someone that believes you are being faithful and you aren't is not only unfair but it's very deceiving.


People that believe that they can stop cheating once they get married are lying to themselves. The same reason that caused you to cheat will still be there when you take your vows and sign the papers therefore marriage will not make you stop cheating.


So, do you think that cheating isn't really cheating unless you are married?

6 comments:

Unbreakable said...

I will have to agree with you, i say do what you want to do before you decided to settle with one person.

Epiphany said...

i agree with you 100%

eaglebird said...

I think I'mma ride wit you on this one too,who ever say that trying to justify cheating just 'cause a ring and legal documents aint involved,funny thing they still probably cheat even if they do jump the broom so whats the point?

Krissy said...

cheating is cheating and there should be no exceptions to it. People try to say whatever they feel to make what they are doing justifiable to them. It's not. It's still wrong not matter how you try and sugarcoat it.

RoByn LaTice said...

People really believe that statement? SMh!

JStar said...

I am with you on this one too....If the relationship is monogamous; than anything else is cheating...If you wanna mess around elsewhere, don’t get into a relationship...

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